Is it possible to bein love with a lesbian lady while you have your own finance.?

She is my friend but whenever she comes close to me i have the same feel i have for my finance and i don't know what to do, i try to control myself but i don't know.





pls, i need a grown up advise.

Is it possible to bein love with a lesbian lady while you have your own finance.?
how serious do you value the idea of being born a woman and the meaning of it? are you influenced by feelings to the point of it blocking out your sense self worth,what is your definition of love anyways? these questions will only resin ate in your mind as you get further and further into a world of sexual uses of toys that are still used as part of a man ,meanwhile you try to elude the responsibility and challenge of being a woman,there are a lot of consenting adults out there and when we think of it ,we do whatever with our bodies,as if we were to revert to the times of the fall of the roman empire ,men slept with men and women did likewise,so what was the end result,they forgot the reason why they were made strong and gave in to all kinds of lustful behaviors ,in a short time the empire was no more and people became slaves to their own vices that they created,that what you are feeling is the most unnatural thing that you can have,for a woman is a fountain of life ,you can carry a life inside for nine months,and choose to have it or not,how much do you appreciate that? maybe you are not getting the attention that you need as a woman ,but this is not the way to go ,you can challenge my views ,but life as I know it and as you know it has more to offer us than the road you want to take,lastly ,consult with your inner beauty and see that you are worth more,delmy d
Reply:You need to protect yourself and stop thinking of other people in that way. Try to discover why you are projecting those kind of thoughts and imagine yourself much older, thinking back on the mistakes you've made. It won't be comfortable.





Sounds like your boundaries (respect and protection of self) wasn't fully established. Think of all the people who would be hurt and confused if you acted out any and all of the wild thoughts that ever come into your head. Spend more time reading books that would help ground you and always think about the potential bad outcome of acting out whims. There's a great big world of wonderful information out there that will make you feel more balanced.
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Reply:Anything is possible and you just have to sort out in your mind whether it's friendship feelings or romantic feelings. Either way don't feel bad about how you feel and just understand that everyone has different feelings on these things.
Reply:look u have issues 2 b asking stranger this question..seek help ASAP
Reply:you mean fiance? well maybe u are bisexual.
Reply:I think being bi is being confused, don't get married until your sure of what you want. Don't get innocent people involved in your problems.